Me ardhjen e pranver\u00ebs hyjm\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn kushtuar shenj\u00ebs s\u00eb Dashit. Nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe e guximshme s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb dhe komandoj\u00eb gj\u00ebrat dhe q\u00eb nuk i duron dot ata q\u00eb u humbin koh\u00ebn dhe sidomos ata q\u00eb u thon\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb temperament i k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm, me pak fjal\u00eb, prandaj jan\u00eb disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk duhet t’i thuhen kurr\u00eb pasi n\u00eb pak sekonda dhe me shum\u00eb pak fjali mund t\u00eb zgjoni nj\u00eb an\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Disa nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nuk mund ti thuhen nj\u00eb Dashi n\u00ebse nuk doni t\u00eb njihni an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb tyre jan\u00eb k\u00ebto:<\/p>\n
\u201cJeni i sigurt q\u00eb nuk keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb?\u201d
\nN\u00ebse keni t\u00eb b\u00ebni me nj\u00eb Dash, do ta kuptoni se sa kok\u00ebfort\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb dhe sa shum\u00eb u p\u00eblqen t’i b\u00ebjn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat vet\u00ebm, pa ndihm\u00ebn e askujt. Edhe n\u00ebse i shihni n\u00eb telashe mos insistoni kurr\u00eb t’i ndihmoni n\u00ebse nuk k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen tuaj. Nuk do t\u00eb merrnit p\u00ebrgjigjen e merituar.<\/p>\n
\u201cJe shum\u00eb i\/e ndjeshme!\u201d
\nEdhe pse n\u00eb pamje mund t\u00eb duken t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb dhe jo emocional\u00eb, Dashi \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i ndjesh\u00ebm. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos e teproni me komente, batuta, kritika etj., do t’i l\u00ebndonit edhe n\u00ebse nuk do t’jua shprehnin.<\/p>\n
\u201cDuhet t\u00eb jesh m\u00eb i\/e duruar\u201d
\nKarakteristik\u00eb e Dashit \u00ebsht\u00eb impulsiviteti dhe padurimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebrat. Ose th\u00ebn\u00eb me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta t\u00eb lindurit n\u00ebn k\u00ebto yje duan gjith\u00e7ka menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse duke ua kujtuar vet\u00ebm sa do t’i acaroni e ti b\u00ebni edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb paduruesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
\u201cKurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kesh sukses\u201d
\nK\u00ebto jan\u00eb fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb nxjerrin m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb pah krenarin\u00eb dhe konkurrenc\u00ebn e shenj\u00ebs s\u00eb Dashit. Nj\u00eb kombinim perfekt p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar q\u00eb ata t\u00eb kthejn\u00eb t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr tua provuar q\u00eb e keni gabim.<\/p>\n
\u201cA mund t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohesh?\u201d
\nN\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk duhet t’i thoni kurr\u00eb dikujt q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nervoz dhe\/ose i shqet\u00ebsuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cqet\u00ebsohu\u201d. E n\u00ebse personi n\u00eb fjal\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i shenj\u00ebs s\u00eb Dashit, k\u00ebshilla vlen dyfish. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, kurr\u00eb mos e thuaj.<\/p>\n
\u201cMos u b\u00ebj xheloz\/e\u201d
\nKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr fjali q\u00eb nuk duhet t’ia thoni kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb Dashi. Xhelozia, n\u00eb fakt, \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e tyre (n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ata jan\u00eb edhe egoist\u00eb). P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, n\u00ebse nuk u kushtoni v\u00ebmendjen q\u00eb ata mendojn\u00eb se e meritojn\u00eb, prisni reagimin e tyre dhe t\u00eb dini q\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e kot\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni ta reduktoni at\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Me ardhjen e pranver\u00ebs hyjm\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn kushtuar shenj\u00ebs s\u00eb Dashit. Nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe e guximshme s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":57202,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7424],"tags":[8464],"class_list":["post-57201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-astrologji","tag-gjerat-qe-nuk-duhet-ti-thoni-kurre-nje-dashi","wpcat-7424-id"],"yoast_head":"\n