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Ajlin Alfredaj \u00ebsht\u00eb 30-vje\u00e7arja nga Tropoja q\u00eb ka sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Mes sfidave ajo s\u00ebrish g\u00ebzon familjen e saj t\u00eb madhe me an\u00ebtare t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl q\u00eb i kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj kuptim tjet\u00ebr por dhe detyra dhe p\u00ebgjegj\u00ebsi mbi supe. Cel\u00ebsi i t\u00eb kujdesit t\u00eb 7 vog\u00eblusheve \u00ebsht\u00eb organizimi i koh\u00ebs me p\u00ebrpik\u00ebm\u00ebri. P\u00ebr pozitivi.org Ajlin na njeh ne 7 mrekullit\u00eb q\u00eb ka sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr 10 vite
\nAjlin n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re je n\u00ebn\u00eb e 7 f\u00ebmijve si \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e jotja me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?<\/p>\n
T\u00eb jesh n\u00ebn\u00eb e 7 f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lumturi shum\u00eb e mdhe p\u00ebr mua sepse jap shum\u00eb dashuri dhe marr dashuri pafund, me pak fjal\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha i ke m\u00eb me shum\u00eb, por edhe lodhje e sfida. Ndjehem e bekuar nga zoti. Rinin\u00eb time ia kam dedikuar 7 f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishm\u00eb p\u00ebr mua n\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb familja, t\u00eb tjerat vin\u00eb n\u00eb plan t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. E them me krenari q\u00eb kam 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb arritja m\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr cdo prind, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ta sjell n\u00eb jet\u00eb, por gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb ti m\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb luftojn\u00eb p\u00ebr q\u00ebllimet q\u00eb i vendosin vetes n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos heqin dor\u00eb nga \u00ebndrrat dhe ta jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn ashtu sic ju vjen.<\/p>\n
Sa v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ty q\u00eb t\u00eb rrisesh 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Dit\u00ebt e mija jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mbushura dhe intensive. Cdo dit\u00eb e imja fillon shum\u00eb her\u00ebt dhe mbyllet po ashtu shum\u00eb von\u00eb. Nj\u00eb ndihmes\u00eb shum\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr mua \u00ebsht\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti, pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsues n\u00eb profesion dhe punon n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn shkoll\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Ata shkojn\u00eb bashk\u00eb dhe kthehen bashk\u00eb nga shkolla. Un\u00eb e kam m\u00ebndjen e qet\u00eb kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb me Fredin sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb baba shum\u00eb i p\u00ebrkushtuar ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Ajlin si ia del q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00ebn\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar p\u00ebr 7 f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tu, nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorte e mir\u00eb por dhe nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb vazhdon pun\u00ebn n\u00eb profesionin e saj?<\/p>\n
T\u00eb rris\u00ebsh 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebr mua nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sepse p\u00ebr mua \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb punosh n\u00eb grup sesa n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb individuale dhe kjo p\u00ebr mua vlen n\u00eb cdo llojdimensioni. M\u00eb karakterizon nj\u00eb natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb organizative, dhe kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb vecant\u00eb sepse di shum\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj llogarit\u00eb e koh\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb pranoj realitetin, jam shum\u00eb k\u00ebmngul\u00ebse dhe k\u00ebshtu marr maksimumin nga cdo gj\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, sigurisht m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn. Ja dal t\u00eb jem nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e mir\u00eb, nj\u00eb grua dhe bashk\u00ebshorte e dedikuar duke u dh\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebv\u00eb, bashk\u00ebshorti, pun\u00ebs dhe padyshim dhe vetes v\u00ebm\u00ebndjen e duhur. Suksesi im mendoj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb cil\u00ebsore.
\nN\u00eb cfar\u00eb moshe je b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe e kishe menduar q\u00eb do kishe nj\u00eb familje kaq t\u00eb madhe?<\/p>\n
Jam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb moshen 20-vjecare me binjak\u00eb me djal\u00eb dhe vajz\u00eb, nuk e kam menduar kurr\u00eb q\u00eb do kem nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb madhe, idealja p\u00ebr mua ka q\u00ebn\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe vajz\u00eb dhe zoti m\u00eb bekoi duke mi dh\u00ebn\u00eb ashtu si doja. Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt Rei dhe Rea mbush\u00ebn 3 vjec dhe un\u00eb isha m\u00eb e vet\u00ebdijshme p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe prind\u00ebrimin kuptova se sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb familja, duke q\u00ebn\u00eb se edhe bashk\u00ebshorti \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vet\u00ebm, ai kishte d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb Rei t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb v\u00eblla dhe Rea t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr, t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn d\u00ebshir\u00eb kisha dhe un\u00eb. Zoti na bekoi edhe me cifte binjak\u00ebsh me vajza Ajsel dhe Selma q\u00eb sot jan\u00eb 8 vjece dhe Ajla e Amelia q\u00eb sot jan\u00eb 7 vjece dhe Kenza e vog\u00ebl q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb tek dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb 5 vjece. Rei dhe Rea g\u00ebzimi jon\u00eb i par\u00eb sot jan\u00eb 11 vjec dhe jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm p\u00ebr motrat i ndihmojn\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebsime. Ato kan\u00eb nj\u00eb raport shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri tjetrin dhe shum\u00eb social.<\/p>\n
Ke d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta zgjeruar akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb familjen?
\nE kam \u00ebnd\u00ebrr n\u00eb sirtar q\u00eb Rei t\u00eb ket\u00eb v\u00eblla.<\/p>\n
Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha grate sidomos ato q\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebna n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re?
\nT\u00eb mos heqin dor\u00eb nga \u00ebndrrat, t\u00eb besojn\u00eb tek vetja q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb besojn\u00eb tek ato.
\nMotoja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb: N\u00ebse nuk fiton sigurohu q\u00eb mos t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh. P\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb lexuesit tuaj dua t\u00eb sjell disa shprehje q\u00eb kan\u00eb nga nj mesazh shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr vet\u00eb jet\u00ebn.
\n\u201cN\u00eb momentin q\u00eb lind nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, lind edhe n\u00ebna. Ajo nuk ekzistonte m\u00eb par\u00eb \u2013 gruaja ekzistonte, por kurr\u00eb n\u00ebna. N\u00ebna \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebnie e re!\u201d \u2013 Osho
\nT\u00eb jesh n\u00ebn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ndienja m\u00eb e pap\u00ebrshkrueshme n\u00eb jet\u00eb.
\nF\u00ebmija yt t\u00eb ngroh shpirtin sa her\u00eb q\u00eb e shikon, t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur me vet\u00eb prezenc\u00ebn e tij, \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq madh\u00ebshtore, \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq emocionuese, \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e bukur dhe m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb.
\n\u201cUn\u00eb jam grua e kam mendimet, pyetjet dhe bro\u00e7kullat e mia. E di un\u00eb kur jam e bukur. E di un\u00eb kur jam e fort\u00eb. Nuk e nd\u00ebrtoni ju historin\u00eb time\u2013e nd\u00ebrtoj vet\u00eb.\u201d \u2014Amy Schumer
\n\u201cT\u00eb drejtat e njeriut jan\u00eb t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb grave dhe t\u00eb drejtat e grave jan\u00eb t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb njeriut, nj\u00eb her\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb.\u201d \u2014Hillary Clinton\/<\/p>\n
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Marr\u00eb nga: Pozitivi.org Ajlin Alfredaj \u00ebsht\u00eb 30-vje\u00e7arja nga Tropoja q\u00eb ka sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Mes sfidave ajo s\u00ebrish g\u00ebzon familjen e saj t\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":61187,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7424],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-astrologji","wpcat-7424-id"],"yoast_head":"\n